1 00:00:01,150 --> 00:00:02,680 Louis: Previously On "90 Day Fiancé"... 2 00:00:02,690 --> 00:00:04,850 Alan: Kirlyam's From Goiânia, Brazil. 3 00:00:04,860 --> 00:00:07,890 They Don't Have Running, Hot Water. 4 00:00:09,190 --> 00:00:11,690 When I Arrived To Tulsa... 5 00:00:12,700 --> 00:00:15,800 Aziza Applied For A Work Visa And Was Denied. 6 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:18,300 Wouldn't That Be Almost A Red Flag? 7 00:00:18,300 --> 00:00:19,430 We Either Get Married In Those 90 Days 8 00:00:19,440 --> 00:00:21,600 Or She'll Have To Go Back To Russia. 9 00:00:21,610 --> 00:00:23,470 The Joke Was, "Don't Go Down There 10 00:00:23,470 --> 00:00:25,010 And Bring A Girl Back Home." 11 00:00:25,010 --> 00:00:26,510 Sure Enough, He Does. 12 00:00:26,510 --> 00:00:29,440 Alan: And Coming Up... 13 00:00:29,450 --> 00:00:32,410 I'm Worried That Kirlyam's Gonna Experience 14 00:00:32,420 --> 00:00:33,780 A Lot Of Culture Shock. 15 00:00:33,780 --> 00:00:36,620 Yeah, We Do It. 16 00:00:38,890 --> 00:00:43,390 Russ: I Am Concerned How Paola Is Going To Fit In. 17 00:00:44,690 --> 00:00:49,900 Louis: Have You Guys Ever Heard Of The Phrase "Mail-Order Bride"? 18 00:00:49,900 --> 00:00:52,170 As Far As I Know, She's A Stranger. 19 00:00:52,170 --> 00:00:55,370 We Have Only 90 Days To Get Married. 20 00:00:55,370 --> 00:00:57,210 She Looks Like She Don't Like My Food. 21 00:00:57,210 --> 00:00:59,010 No, Please Don't Think That. 22 00:00:59,010 --> 00:01:00,980 Are You Sure You're Okay Here? 23 00:01:00,980 --> 00:01:02,280 Yes. 24 00:01:04,910 --> 00:01:08,050 Captions By Vitac -- Www.Vitac.Com 25 00:01:08,050 --> 00:01:12,150 Captions Paid For By Discovery Communications 26 00:01:14,320 --> 00:01:17,930 Russ: My Fiancé Paola Just Flew In From Colombia, 27 00:01:17,930 --> 00:01:20,260 And Today's A Big Day. 28 00:01:21,060 --> 00:01:23,600 We're Moving Into My Parents' House 29 00:01:23,600 --> 00:01:24,970 To Save Money For The Wedding 30 00:01:24,970 --> 00:01:27,500 Rather Than Spending Money On Rent Somewhere 31 00:01:27,500 --> 00:01:28,840 For The Next Three Months. 32 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:30,840 So, This Is Your Room? 33 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:33,810 This Is My Room. Hey. 34 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:41,180 Oh. So...This Is Your Room. 35 00:01:41,180 --> 00:01:45,150 Well, When I Saw His Room, It Was Cute, 36 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:48,090 But It Was Not What I Was Expecting 37 00:01:48,090 --> 00:01:50,020 For Someone 25 Years Old. 38 00:01:50,030 --> 00:01:51,630 The Closet. 39 00:01:51,630 --> 00:01:52,230 I Saw The Closet. 40 00:01:52,230 --> 00:01:57,130 The Closet's A Little Messy, But It's Big Enough For You. 41 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:10,680 So, Whenever I Was Growing Up, 42 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:17,020 As A Kid, My Parents Would Never Allow Girls In My Room. 43 00:02:17,020 --> 00:02:18,120 So You're The First Girl. 44 00:02:18,120 --> 00:02:21,560 Yeah? So, We Can Just Close The Door, Maybe? 45 00:02:22,130 --> 00:02:24,730 I Can Be The First One In Everything? 46 00:02:24,730 --> 00:02:26,430 Yeah. This Can Just -- Shhh. 47 00:02:26,430 --> 00:02:29,360 I'm Very Happy That Paola's In My Room, 48 00:02:29,370 --> 00:02:30,470 But I Need To Explain To Her 49 00:02:30,470 --> 00:02:35,970 How My Parents Want Us To Be In Separate Bedrooms. 50 00:02:35,970 --> 00:02:39,310 This Is Where I Will Be Sleeping. 51 00:02:39,310 --> 00:02:40,180 What? 52 00:02:40,180 --> 00:02:41,880 Yeah. And Me? 53 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:44,380 You'll Be Sleeping My Brother's Room. 54 00:02:56,660 --> 00:03:00,830 This Is My Brother's Room Where You'll Be Staying. 55 00:03:00,830 --> 00:03:05,600 Hmm. Yay. 56 00:03:09,340 --> 00:03:09,740 No. Why? 57 00:03:09,740 --> 00:03:14,040 I Don't Want To Sleep In Separate Rooms. 58 00:03:24,450 --> 00:03:25,590 My Name's Louis. 59 00:03:25,590 --> 00:03:28,620 I'm 33 Years Old And I Live In Indianapolis, Indiana. 60 00:03:28,630 --> 00:03:31,460 I Was Married Before, When I Was 20. 61 00:03:31,460 --> 00:03:36,600 My Ex-Wife Tonya And I Have Joint Custody Of Two Boys. 62 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:38,600 The Boys Are My World. 63 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:40,970 Aaah! 64 00:03:40,970 --> 00:03:44,370 I Am Louis. This Is -- 65 00:03:44,370 --> 00:03:46,170 I Am Donavan. 66 00:03:46,180 --> 00:03:48,880 I Am 10. 67 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:50,610 I Am 6. 68 00:03:51,750 --> 00:03:53,620 I Mean 7! 69 00:03:55,620 --> 00:03:58,990 Without Having The Time To Go Out To Network And Socialize 70 00:03:58,990 --> 00:04:02,620 And Dedicate That Time To Finding Someone To Be With, 71 00:04:02,630 --> 00:04:07,360 I Just Saw An Ad For A Free Dating Site, 72 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:10,600 And Then I Ran Across Aya's Profile. 73 00:04:10,600 --> 00:04:11,530 Hi! 74 00:04:11,530 --> 00:04:14,500 Louis: Aya Lives In The Philippines, So, I Sent Her A Message 75 00:04:14,500 --> 00:04:19,810 And We Started Talking On January 15Th Of 2012. 76 00:04:19,810 --> 00:04:22,440 By March 10Th, I Had Fallen In Love With Her. 77 00:04:22,450 --> 00:04:23,950 How Are You? 78 00:04:23,950 --> 00:04:24,980 I'm Good. 79 00:04:24,980 --> 00:04:27,880 I Can't See You Very Good. 80 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:30,320 Me Either. 81 00:04:32,690 --> 00:04:37,290 Aya And I Have Spent, Physically, Two Weeks Together. 82 00:04:37,290 --> 00:04:40,800 But I Feel That She Is My Best Friend. 83 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:46,830 I Did Not Go Through A Marriage Broker To Find Aya. 84 00:04:46,840 --> 00:04:49,170 She's Not A Mail-Order Bride, You Know. 85 00:04:49,170 --> 00:04:52,870 I Just Met Her On A Dating Site, I Talked To Her, 86 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:55,980 Our Relationship Evolved And Now We're Engaged. 87 00:04:57,650 --> 00:04:59,150 She's Gonna Be Coming Over 88 00:04:59,150 --> 00:05:01,850 On What Is Considered A K-1 Visa, 89 00:05:01,850 --> 00:05:03,520 Which Is A Fiancé Visa. 90 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:06,820 We're Given 90 Days To Get Married. 91 00:05:06,820 --> 00:05:09,120 Is There A Little Bit Of Worry? Yes. 92 00:05:09,130 --> 00:05:12,160 If The Boys Don't Like Somebody I'm With, 93 00:05:12,160 --> 00:05:13,800 Then I Can't Be With Them. 94 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:15,630 Louis: Donny. Dad? 95 00:05:15,630 --> 00:05:16,330 Come Here. 96 00:05:16,330 --> 00:05:18,100 'Cause I Got To Talk To You And Your Brother. 97 00:05:18,100 --> 00:05:21,670 So, I Wanted To Talk To You Guys And Find Out 98 00:05:21,670 --> 00:05:23,170 If You Had Heard Anything 99 00:05:23,170 --> 00:05:25,440 From Any Of Your Classmates At School, 100 00:05:25,440 --> 00:05:27,480 Or If They've Asked You Any Questions 101 00:05:27,480 --> 00:05:30,910 Or Anything Like That About Me And Aya. 102 00:05:36,250 --> 00:05:36,850 Lou? Hmm? 103 00:05:36,850 --> 00:05:40,190 Have Any Of Your Friends Asked You Any Questions At All? 104 00:05:40,190 --> 00:05:41,660 Not Really, No. Okay. 105 00:05:41,660 --> 00:05:46,430 Have You Guys Ever Heard Of The Phrase "Mail-Order Bride"? 106 00:05:46,430 --> 00:05:48,500 No. Mnh-Mnh. 107 00:05:48,500 --> 00:05:52,630 If You Guys Get Any Weird Questions, 108 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:55,970 Or If Anybody Says Anything That You Think Is Negative, 109 00:05:55,970 --> 00:05:57,370 All You Have To Tell Them Is That, 110 00:05:57,370 --> 00:06:00,810 "My Daddy's Getting Married To Somebody That He Loves." 111 00:06:00,810 --> 00:06:05,010 Don't Be Afraid To Tell Them She's From The Philippines 112 00:06:05,010 --> 00:06:08,920 And There's Nothing Wrong With It. 113 00:06:08,920 --> 00:06:11,120 Okay? Okay? 114 00:06:11,120 --> 00:06:11,550 Okay. 115 00:06:11,550 --> 00:06:16,090 We'll Try To Be As Good As We Can For... 116 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:23,970 Say Something! 117 00:06:31,910 --> 00:06:35,380 Alan: Kirlyam And I Just Got Back From Brazil, 118 00:06:35,380 --> 00:06:40,280 And She's Only Been Living In Los Angeles Now For Three Days. 119 00:06:40,280 --> 00:06:44,890 So, We Still Have A Good Chunk Of The 90 Days Left. 120 00:06:47,660 --> 00:06:50,990 That's What Heats The Water. 121 00:06:50,990 --> 00:06:52,090 Ohhh! 122 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:55,400 She Still Has To Get Acclimated More. 123 00:06:55,400 --> 00:06:59,700 "C" Is For Cold, "H" Is For Hot. Okay. 124 00:06:59,700 --> 00:07:03,700 She's Still Got The Language To Learn. 125 00:07:03,710 --> 00:07:05,670 What Does That Say? Coop? 126 00:07:05,680 --> 00:07:06,870 Cup. 127 00:07:06,880 --> 00:07:08,580 Cup. 128 00:07:08,580 --> 00:07:11,280 Cup. Wow. 129 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:12,280 In Normal Circumstances, 130 00:07:12,280 --> 00:07:14,880 If Someone Was Acclimating To A New Culture, 131 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:19,190 They'd Want To Have A Nice, Smooth Transition. 132 00:07:19,190 --> 00:07:20,660 Bowl. Bowl. 133 00:07:20,660 --> 00:07:21,590 Bowl. Bowl. 134 00:07:21,590 --> 00:07:22,620 Bowl. Bowl. 135 00:07:22,630 --> 00:07:24,660 That Won't Necessarily Be The Case For Kirlyam. 136 00:07:24,660 --> 00:07:26,990 You Want To See What's In The Fridge? 137 00:07:29,530 --> 00:07:30,530 Nothing. 138 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:33,270 We'll Have To Go Shopping Today. 139 00:07:33,270 --> 00:07:36,900 I'm Worried That Kirlyam's Gonna Experience 140 00:07:36,910 --> 00:07:38,610 A Lot Of Culture Shock. 141 00:07:38,610 --> 00:07:41,210 Simple As That. I'm Worried. 142 00:07:47,480 --> 00:07:48,980 No, This Is Juice. 143 00:07:48,990 --> 00:07:50,250 Okay. 144 00:07:50,250 --> 00:07:54,020 Kirlyam From A Relatively Small Community, Goiânia, 145 00:07:54,020 --> 00:07:56,960 You Know, A Lot Of Technologies That We Have, 146 00:07:56,960 --> 00:07:57,660 They Don't Have There. 147 00:07:57,660 --> 00:07:59,290 So, Shopping Will Be A Little Bit Hard 148 00:07:59,300 --> 00:08:02,230 For Kirlyam To Get A Hold Of In The Beginning. 149 00:08:02,230 --> 00:08:06,430 You Don't Have Canned Beans, Huh? 150 00:08:06,440 --> 00:08:06,930 Canned Beans? 151 00:08:06,940 --> 00:08:08,740 Yeah. Beans In Cans? No? 152 00:08:08,740 --> 00:08:11,170 No? 153 00:08:16,210 --> 00:08:22,020 With This, You Don't Have To Make Your Own Tomato Sauce. 154 00:08:22,020 --> 00:08:25,120 This? You Just Buy It, Stir It In. 155 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:27,720 Ready. 156 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:29,760 Wow! 157 00:08:31,760 --> 00:08:34,130 Let's Go To A Self Scan. 158 00:08:34,130 --> 00:08:37,200 We Scan It. 159 00:08:37,730 --> 00:08:38,930 Yeah, We Do It. 160 00:08:40,070 --> 00:08:45,010 I Never See Something Like Self Checkout. 161 00:08:50,210 --> 00:08:51,480 No. You Try. 162 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:52,810 No. Not Now. You. 163 00:08:52,820 --> 00:08:54,780 Yeah, You Try It. No. 164 00:08:54,780 --> 00:08:55,650 Okay. 165 00:08:55,650 --> 00:08:58,550 It's Just -- Look. It's Just That. It's Just This. 166 00:09:01,860 --> 00:09:05,460 Ah, Ha-Ha! 167 00:09:05,460 --> 00:09:05,860 See? 168 00:09:05,860 --> 00:09:11,200 90 Days, It's Not Ideal For Someone Like Kirlyam 169 00:09:11,200 --> 00:09:13,940 To Adjust To A Different Place, A Different Country. 170 00:09:13,940 --> 00:09:16,100 Hopefully It Won't Be An Issue. 171 00:09:16,110 --> 00:09:17,370 Thank You Very Much! 172 00:09:17,370 --> 00:09:18,940 You're Welcome! 173 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:22,040 Okay. 174 00:09:28,420 --> 00:09:30,250 Here's Our Bedroom. 175 00:09:30,250 --> 00:09:31,090 Yay! 176 00:09:31,090 --> 00:09:33,290 We Haven't Had Sex Yet. 177 00:09:33,290 --> 00:09:36,290 So... 178 00:09:38,130 --> 00:09:40,960 Who Likes Tequila? 179 00:09:50,370 --> 00:09:54,980 Russ: I Want Paola To Feel At Home And A Part Of My Life In Oklahoma. 180 00:09:54,980 --> 00:09:56,440 We Are Having Brunch With My Friends 181 00:09:56,450 --> 00:10:00,010 So She Can Get To Know Everyone Before The Wedding. 182 00:10:01,020 --> 00:10:03,350 Russ Did A Good Job. Let's Just Go With That. 183 00:10:03,890 --> 00:10:07,760 Paola Fitting Into My Home Town Will Be A Difficulty. 184 00:10:07,760 --> 00:10:10,830 The Latin Culture Is A Little More Risque, 185 00:10:10,830 --> 00:10:14,800 But Here In Oklahoma, We're A Little More Conservative. 186 00:10:18,470 --> 00:10:20,230 Hello, Guys. 187 00:10:20,240 --> 00:10:21,840 Paola: Hi. Hola. 188 00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:23,870 And He Say, "We're Gonna Have A Brunch," 189 00:10:23,870 --> 00:10:25,810 Or, "We're Going To Brunch." 190 00:10:28,910 --> 00:10:31,610 And I Said, "I Hope I Can Handle It." 191 00:10:31,610 --> 00:10:33,180 This Is My Fiancé Paola. 192 00:10:33,180 --> 00:10:34,280 Hola. 193 00:10:34,280 --> 00:10:36,880 All: Hola! 194 00:10:37,490 --> 00:10:39,890 Jake. Jake: Paola. 195 00:10:39,890 --> 00:10:41,720 This Is Judson. Judson. Nice To Meet You. 196 00:10:41,720 --> 00:10:44,890 And Then You Know My Brother And Taylor. 197 00:10:44,890 --> 00:10:46,160 Yeah, Yeah. 198 00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:47,190 I Know Him. 199 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:49,130 Welcome. Thank You So Much. 200 00:10:49,130 --> 00:10:51,430 It's So Nice To Meet You, Finally. 201 00:10:51,430 --> 00:10:52,170 Yeah, Finally. 202 00:10:52,170 --> 00:10:53,170 "Pa-Ola" Or "Pow"? 203 00:10:53,170 --> 00:10:55,270 Pao. Yeah. Call Me Pao. 204 00:10:55,270 --> 00:10:58,070 Oh, Pistols Firing. Pow! Pow! Pow! 205 00:10:58,070 --> 00:10:59,470 Pow! Pow! Pow! 206 00:11:04,710 --> 00:11:08,020 I Was Really Nervous About It. 207 00:11:18,530 --> 00:11:21,460 I Like It. 208 00:11:21,460 --> 00:11:23,260 Go Like This, And... 209 00:11:23,270 --> 00:11:25,070 Pow! Pow! Pow! 210 00:11:29,810 --> 00:11:32,040 That's Really Good. 211 00:11:35,910 --> 00:11:38,350 You're Gonna Be Crazy? 212 00:11:40,380 --> 00:11:42,020 What Do You Think So Far? 213 00:11:42,020 --> 00:11:44,190 I Want A Good Time. 214 00:11:44,190 --> 00:11:46,520 All The Good Things And A Lot Of Activities 215 00:11:46,520 --> 00:11:52,330 And Crazy Party And -- Who Likes Tequila? 216 00:11:54,530 --> 00:11:58,370 I Know What It's Like In Bogotá, How They Party. 217 00:11:58,370 --> 00:11:59,900 You Could Get Beer Delivered 218 00:11:59,900 --> 00:12:02,140 At 4:00 In The Morning If You Wanted. 219 00:12:02,140 --> 00:12:06,670 Here, That's Just Like A -- That's A Sin, You Know? 220 00:12:13,010 --> 00:12:15,550 Paola: I Feel That The People Are Looking At Me. 221 00:12:15,550 --> 00:12:17,220 Looking At Me Like, "Mnh-Mnh. No." 222 00:12:17,220 --> 00:12:20,650 Russ: In Colombia, They Still Have That Mindset 223 00:12:20,660 --> 00:12:25,460 Of Partying Until 6:00, 7:00 In The Morning. 224 00:12:25,460 --> 00:12:26,830 Oh, Man. 225 00:12:26,830 --> 00:12:30,630 It's Difficult To Me To Have That Connection With Them, 226 00:12:30,630 --> 00:12:33,230 Because It's A Different Culture. 227 00:12:33,240 --> 00:12:35,070 It's Not The Same. 228 00:12:35,070 --> 00:12:36,040 To Russ And Paola. 229 00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:37,910 - Salude. - Cheers. 230 00:12:38,770 --> 00:12:39,940 Salude. 231 00:12:39,940 --> 00:12:41,110 Salude! 232 00:12:41,110 --> 00:12:42,880 Right Now I'm Happy To Be Here, 233 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:44,550 But I Don't Know If In The Future 234 00:12:44,550 --> 00:12:47,680 I'm Gonna Have The, "Oh, My God, I Don't Fit In Here. 235 00:12:47,680 --> 00:12:49,620 This Is Not The Place That I Want To Live." 236 00:12:49,620 --> 00:12:53,120 I Think It's Not Fair To Have 90 Days. 237 00:12:53,120 --> 00:12:54,490 It's A Short Time, You Know? 238 00:12:54,490 --> 00:12:56,820 You Want To Do A Lot Of Things, First, 239 00:12:56,830 --> 00:12:59,460 And You Want To Spend Time With Your Couple, 240 00:12:59,460 --> 00:13:04,100 But 90 Days, What Happens If You Say, "Oh, My God. 241 00:13:04,100 --> 00:13:06,300 No, This Is Not What I Want"? 242 00:13:10,770 --> 00:13:14,480 Mike: Aziza And I Spent Her First Two Days Visiting New York City. 243 00:13:14,480 --> 00:13:17,750 Now It's Time To Head Back To Cleveland. 244 00:13:20,280 --> 00:13:22,820 I'm Really Excited, But I'm Also Kind Of Nervous, 245 00:13:22,820 --> 00:13:25,450 Because This Is A Whole New Chapter In Our Lives, 246 00:13:25,450 --> 00:13:27,960 And I Just Want Aziza To Come Back To Cleveland 247 00:13:27,960 --> 00:13:30,160 And Have Everything Be Perfect. 248 00:13:34,900 --> 00:13:37,930 The Only Reason That We're Getting Married So Fast 249 00:13:37,930 --> 00:13:41,570 And Doing Everything So Fast Is This 90-Day Window. 250 00:13:41,570 --> 00:13:42,540 It Would Be Much Easier 251 00:13:42,540 --> 00:13:45,010 If We Had Time To Get To Know Each Other. 252 00:13:45,010 --> 00:13:47,610 And A Lot Less Pressure, But We Have 90 Days 253 00:13:47,610 --> 00:13:50,740 And We Have To Make The Best Of It. 254 00:13:53,050 --> 00:13:56,350 I Really Hope That Aziza Likes My House, 255 00:13:56,350 --> 00:13:58,850 Because It's Kind Of My Pride And Joy. 256 00:13:58,860 --> 00:14:02,090 I Put A Lot Of Work In Here, Figuring That, Eventually, 257 00:14:02,090 --> 00:14:03,420 I Could Raise A Family Here. 258 00:14:03,430 --> 00:14:06,690 I Was Thinking Of The Future When I Bought It. 259 00:14:06,700 --> 00:14:11,370 Welcome Home, Sweetie. 260 00:14:11,370 --> 00:14:16,140 Thank You. 261 00:14:20,740 --> 00:14:23,440 How Sweet. Doggy. 262 00:14:23,450 --> 00:14:26,110 Hey, Lukey. 263 00:14:26,120 --> 00:14:27,750 Oh, He's So Huge. 264 00:14:27,750 --> 00:14:30,220 Say Hi To Your New Mommy. 265 00:14:30,220 --> 00:14:31,620 Hello. Come On In. 266 00:14:31,620 --> 00:14:36,960 Aziza: I Was Just Thinking About Living Together -- 267 00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:38,860 I'm Really Excited About That. 268 00:14:38,860 --> 00:14:42,800 I Want To Know How It Feels Like To Be With A Person, 269 00:14:42,800 --> 00:14:44,730 Like, Every Minute. 270 00:14:51,640 --> 00:14:52,910 Mike: 271 00:14:52,910 --> 00:14:56,440 My Parents Are Really Excited To See Aziza. 272 00:14:56,450 --> 00:14:57,510 I'm Sure They're Nervous 273 00:14:57,510 --> 00:15:00,150 About Meeting Aziza For The First Time, 274 00:15:00,150 --> 00:15:02,820 And I Think They Have High Hopes. 275 00:15:02,820 --> 00:15:05,250 This Is The Basement. 276 00:15:05,250 --> 00:15:08,090 Laundry Room, So... 277 00:15:08,090 --> 00:15:09,960 Aziza: Why Do You Keep Your Clothes Here? 278 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:14,560 Well, I Wanted To Make Room For You In The Closet Upstairs. 279 00:15:14,560 --> 00:15:16,060 Aww, That's Very Sweet. 280 00:15:16,070 --> 00:15:22,170 Aziza: I Came To A Totally Different World. 281 00:15:22,870 --> 00:15:25,340 I Have To Get Used To A Lot Of New Things. 282 00:15:25,340 --> 00:15:28,510 Whoa. 283 00:15:31,350 --> 00:15:33,450 We Just Need To Be Patient. 284 00:15:33,450 --> 00:15:36,580 I Feel Like It's Worth It. Yeah. 285 00:15:36,590 --> 00:15:39,020 Here's Our Bedroom. 286 00:15:39,020 --> 00:15:39,350 Yay! 287 00:15:39,360 --> 00:15:42,120 Where We'll Be Sleeping Tonight. 288 00:15:42,120 --> 00:15:44,290 Finally. 289 00:15:44,290 --> 00:15:45,060 Hey! 290 00:15:46,730 --> 00:15:48,230 We Haven't Had Sex Yet. 291 00:15:48,230 --> 00:15:52,500 Yeah, It's Just Because, Physically, We Spent 292 00:15:52,500 --> 00:15:53,600 Only, Like, 13 Days 293 00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:59,040 And That's Not How It Works In The Normal Relationships. 294 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:04,040 I'm Sure That We Probably Will Have Sex Soon. 295 00:16:04,050 --> 00:16:06,010 Um... 296 00:16:06,020 --> 00:16:09,620 So... 297 00:16:09,620 --> 00:16:12,750 You Feel At Home Yet? 298 00:16:12,760 --> 00:16:14,420 Not Really. 299 00:16:14,420 --> 00:16:16,360 Ooh. How About Now? 300 00:16:16,360 --> 00:16:19,560 Yeah. 301 00:16:20,660 --> 00:16:22,400 Tonight Is The Night. 302 00:16:22,400 --> 00:16:24,300 Good Night, Sweetie. 303 00:16:26,170 --> 00:16:28,840 Not For Anything But Sleeping. 304 00:16:35,310 --> 00:16:37,540 Fancy -- I Like That Word. 305 00:16:37,550 --> 00:16:40,910 Of Course, She Went To The Most Expensive Pair. 306 00:16:43,650 --> 00:16:46,550 Why Does She Want To Get Out Of The Philippines So Badly? 307 00:16:46,560 --> 00:16:48,690 Is She A Mail-Order Bride? 308 00:16:58,630 --> 00:17:02,500 I Was Married Before, When I Was 20. 309 00:17:02,510 --> 00:17:04,470 Louis: Hey, How You Doing? 310 00:17:04,470 --> 00:17:05,070 Good. 311 00:17:05,070 --> 00:17:07,070 Did You Have A Good Time At Dads? 312 00:17:07,080 --> 00:17:08,780 Yes. Good. 313 00:17:08,780 --> 00:17:12,480 My Ex-Wife Tonya And I, We Do Get Along 314 00:17:12,480 --> 00:17:15,550 And We Do Have That Relationship Because Of The Boys. 315 00:17:15,550 --> 00:17:17,650 I Think Dad And I Need To Talk For A Minute, 316 00:17:17,650 --> 00:17:19,550 Do You Guys Want To Go Out Back With Wally? 317 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:25,460 Tonya's Gonna Be A Very Huge Part Of Aya And My Life. 318 00:17:27,300 --> 00:17:32,800 I'm Getting Ready To Go, Next Week, To Finally Get Aya. 319 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:36,240 Whatever Day We Get Back, We Will Have 90 Days 320 00:17:36,240 --> 00:17:40,410 To Still Decide If We Want To Get Married, 321 00:17:40,410 --> 00:17:42,740 And If We Don't Get Married Within Those 90 Days, 322 00:17:42,750 --> 00:17:45,080 Then She's Supposed To Have To Go Back. 323 00:17:45,080 --> 00:17:47,410 You Sure You Want To Marry Her? 324 00:17:47,420 --> 00:17:48,550 Yes. 325 00:17:48,550 --> 00:17:51,990 So, How Exactly Did You Meet? 326 00:17:51,990 --> 00:17:55,860 We Just -- We Met On An Online Dating Site. 327 00:17:55,860 --> 00:17:58,360 Why Does She Want To Get Out Of The Philippines So Badly? 328 00:17:58,360 --> 00:18:00,260 She Didn't Want To Leave The Philippines. 329 00:18:00,260 --> 00:18:02,760 If I Didn't Have The Boys, I Would Be Moving There. 330 00:18:02,770 --> 00:18:06,070 Then Why The International Dating Site? 331 00:18:07,500 --> 00:18:11,710 Unfortunately, You Hear -- And Even Aya Will Tell You, 332 00:18:11,710 --> 00:18:13,710 There Are Girls From The Philippines All The Time 333 00:18:13,710 --> 00:18:17,210 That Are With Guys For Completely The Wrong Reasons. 334 00:18:17,210 --> 00:18:19,310 Tonya Doesn't Want Me To Get Hurt. 335 00:18:19,320 --> 00:18:22,450 Anybody That I've Mentioned This Situation To 336 00:18:22,450 --> 00:18:23,620 Finds It Highly Unusual. 337 00:18:23,620 --> 00:18:25,590 I Really Try Not To Give Them Much Information. 338 00:18:25,590 --> 00:18:27,190 I Just Say, "Yes, He's Getting Married." 339 00:18:27,190 --> 00:18:28,320 "Yes, She's From The Philippines." 340 00:18:28,320 --> 00:18:33,230 One Question I Have -- Is She A Mail-Order Bride? 341 00:18:33,700 --> 00:18:35,760 What Makes This Different? 342 00:18:35,760 --> 00:18:39,200 To My Understanding, Mail-Order Brides, 343 00:18:39,200 --> 00:18:41,140 They Actually Pay A Site, 344 00:18:41,140 --> 00:18:43,900 Or What Would Be Considered A Marriage Broker, 345 00:18:43,910 --> 00:18:45,940 To Basically Find Them A Girl. 346 00:18:45,940 --> 00:18:49,510 Well, That May Be The Technical Definition, 347 00:18:49,510 --> 00:18:51,580 But I Think What People Are Asking -- 348 00:18:51,580 --> 00:18:52,410 You're Not Letting Me Finish. 349 00:18:52,410 --> 00:18:54,550 Here, In This Country, When People Say That, 350 00:18:54,550 --> 00:18:56,850 It's Kind Of A Blanket Statement To Cover, Like, 351 00:18:56,850 --> 00:18:58,050 Not Only Did You Pay For Her, 352 00:18:58,050 --> 00:19:00,320 But Is She Just Coming Over Here For The Visa? 353 00:19:00,320 --> 00:19:02,660 Well, And That's Due To A Lot Of People's Ignorance 354 00:19:02,660 --> 00:19:04,390 To What The Whole Thing Entails. 355 00:19:04,390 --> 00:19:06,860 Direct Them To Me. 356 00:19:06,860 --> 00:19:10,030 Tonya: He Just Got Defensive About It. 357 00:19:10,030 --> 00:19:12,700 Reacting That Way To Me Asking That Question, 358 00:19:12,700 --> 00:19:16,700 That Did Put A Little Doubt In My Mind. 359 00:19:16,710 --> 00:19:19,370 Does She Have Any Children? 360 00:19:19,380 --> 00:19:21,280 No. She Doesn't Have Any Kids. 361 00:19:21,280 --> 00:19:23,380 Okay. Does She Want Children? 362 00:19:23,380 --> 00:19:25,910 She Does Want To Have Kids. 363 00:19:25,920 --> 00:19:29,850 We're Very Careful About The Boys And Who They Stay With. 364 00:19:29,850 --> 00:19:33,220 I Can Completely Understand -- She Doesn't Know Aya. 365 00:19:33,220 --> 00:19:36,790 I Would Be Worried About The Boys Staying Alone 366 00:19:36,790 --> 00:19:39,090 With Somebody That I Hadn't Met. 367 00:19:39,090 --> 00:19:41,360 Before The Boys Spend Any Time With Her, 368 00:19:41,360 --> 00:19:43,160 I Really Feel Like I Need To Meet Her, 369 00:19:43,170 --> 00:19:44,930 Because As Far As I Know, She's A Stranger. 370 00:19:44,930 --> 00:19:48,470 Nothing Matters More To Me Than Making Sure Those Boys Are Okay. 371 00:19:48,470 --> 00:19:53,010 I Just Hope That It Doesn't Have Ill Effects On My Children. 372 00:19:53,010 --> 00:19:58,980 If She Gets Here And The Boys Just Absolutely Hate Her 373 00:19:58,980 --> 00:20:00,580 Or She's Not Good To The Boys, 374 00:20:00,580 --> 00:20:04,820 Then I'm Not Just Gonna Marry Her Just Because. 375 00:20:14,530 --> 00:20:15,160 Maybe 10 Minutes. 376 00:20:15,160 --> 00:20:19,170 Russ: Today, I'm Taking Paola To Go Shopping For Cowgirl Boots, 377 00:20:19,170 --> 00:20:20,930 Just To Kind Of Give Her That Okie Feel, 378 00:20:20,940 --> 00:20:22,000 'Cause She Wanted To Fit In. 379 00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:24,810 This Expensive, That Boots? 380 00:20:24,810 --> 00:20:26,640 Yeah. Yes, They Can Be Expensive. 381 00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:27,110 Really? 382 00:20:27,110 --> 00:20:30,110 Normally They Cost Over $100. 383 00:20:30,110 --> 00:20:31,910 Maybe $150 Is An Average, 384 00:20:31,910 --> 00:20:35,180 But You Can Get Them Even More Expensive 385 00:20:35,180 --> 00:20:38,420 Depending On The Type Of Material That It's Made Out Of. 386 00:20:49,230 --> 00:20:51,800 Thank You. 387 00:20:54,270 --> 00:20:56,800 All Of Our Crows Are Over Here On The Wall. 388 00:20:56,810 --> 00:20:59,110 They're Our Fancier Boots. 389 00:20:59,110 --> 00:21:01,040 Fancier Boots. Yeah. 390 00:21:11,090 --> 00:21:12,390 You Don't Like Those? 391 00:21:12,390 --> 00:21:13,090 No. 392 00:21:13,090 --> 00:21:15,390 How About These? No, This Is It. 393 00:21:15,390 --> 00:21:18,530 American Flag Ones? Oh, My God. 394 00:21:18,530 --> 00:21:20,690 I Don't Know. 395 00:21:20,700 --> 00:21:22,060 No. 396 00:21:23,560 --> 00:21:24,800 That's Awesome. 397 00:21:24,800 --> 00:21:27,530 No Way. No. 398 00:21:27,540 --> 00:21:28,870 Mnh-Mnh. 399 00:21:31,570 --> 00:21:32,540 You Like The Pink Ones. 400 00:21:32,540 --> 00:21:34,370 The Pink Ones? Imagine That. 401 00:21:34,380 --> 00:21:36,080 Yeah. 402 00:21:37,510 --> 00:21:40,950 Now, I Set A Limit In My Head, But Of Course, 403 00:21:40,950 --> 00:21:43,980 She Went To The Most Expensive Pair That She Could Find. 404 00:21:43,990 --> 00:21:45,550 Paola: How Do You Think? 405 00:21:45,550 --> 00:21:47,350 Russ: I Like Them. 406 00:21:47,360 --> 00:21:48,820 I Like It, Too. 407 00:21:48,820 --> 00:21:51,090 $289. 408 00:21:51,090 --> 00:21:52,630 $289. 409 00:21:52,630 --> 00:21:54,700 I Don't Know What You -- This Is Your Fault. 410 00:21:54,700 --> 00:21:56,960 You Want Me To Wear Those Boots. I Don't Know. 411 00:21:56,970 --> 00:21:59,430 It's Not Because I Choose The Most Expensive, 412 00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:01,000 It's Just Because... 413 00:22:02,770 --> 00:22:03,700 I Believe. 414 00:22:03,710 --> 00:22:04,370 Just Because I Love You, 415 00:22:04,370 --> 00:22:07,240 We're Gonna Get You Started With Some Cowgirl Boots. 416 00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:09,510 Yeah. I Like It A Lot. 417 00:22:09,510 --> 00:22:11,680 You Want To Get A Whole Outfit, Huh? 418 00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:14,180 Uh-Huh. 419 00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:19,620 From Shorts, She Wanted A Shirt, A Belt, 420 00:22:19,620 --> 00:22:21,890 It Just Kind Of Went From One Thing To Another. 421 00:22:21,890 --> 00:22:25,590 She's Gonna Empty My Wallet If She's Not Careful. 422 00:22:29,670 --> 00:22:31,870 You Look Like A Cowgirl. 423 00:22:31,870 --> 00:22:34,840 Are You Ready? You Might As Well. 424 00:22:35,740 --> 00:22:39,070 Maybe I Can Take This For Tonight, Just, "Oh! Move!" 425 00:22:39,070 --> 00:22:43,310 Oh, Yeah. I Like It. 426 00:22:46,510 --> 00:22:50,020 This Is A Lot Of Pressure, Because Here... 427 00:22:50,020 --> 00:22:52,890 I Don't Know The Way They Dance. 428 00:22:54,420 --> 00:22:55,520 How Are You? 429 00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:57,560 When Kirlyam Stays At My Parents' House, 430 00:22:57,560 --> 00:22:59,730 There Will Be A Language Barrier. 431 00:22:59,730 --> 00:23:01,900 It Just Makes Me Nervous. 432 00:23:01,900 --> 00:23:03,930 Oh... 433 00:23:09,700 --> 00:23:11,970 Alan: This All You Need? 434 00:23:11,970 --> 00:23:13,140 It's All I Need. 435 00:23:13,140 --> 00:23:15,040 Do You Need Anything Else? Oh! 436 00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:15,710 Yeah. 437 00:23:15,710 --> 00:23:19,810 Kirlyam Is Packing Up To Stay At My Parents' House. 438 00:23:22,050 --> 00:23:23,280 Your Pajamas. 439 00:23:23,290 --> 00:23:25,220 Pajamas. And Pajamas. 440 00:23:25,220 --> 00:23:26,520 I Happen To Be A Mormon. 441 00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:30,390 We Abstain From Having Sex Before Getting Married, 442 00:23:30,390 --> 00:23:31,390 And It's Hard To Do. 443 00:23:31,390 --> 00:23:33,760 So, We Had Kent Chaperoning Us, 444 00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:37,200 But Because Of His Schedule, He Can't. 445 00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:39,130 We're Ready To Go? Yeah -- No. 446 00:23:39,130 --> 00:23:40,800 Oh, You Need Your Hair? 447 00:23:55,120 --> 00:23:57,280 My Little -- Like This? 448 00:23:57,290 --> 00:23:58,190 No! 449 00:23:58,190 --> 00:23:58,850 Temptation Is There. 450 00:23:58,850 --> 00:24:03,160 A Momentary Lapse Of Judgment, And You Regret It. 451 00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:06,160 So, Now Kirlyam Has To Stay With My Parents. 452 00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:10,230 You Know, Relax. My Parents Are Your Parents Now. 453 00:24:10,230 --> 00:24:12,830 I Know. 454 00:24:39,230 --> 00:24:42,360 My Parents Met Kirlyam At The L.A. Airport. 455 00:24:42,360 --> 00:24:46,770 They're Very Supportive Of Kirlyam Coming Over Here. 456 00:24:46,770 --> 00:24:52,210 I'm Excited For Them To Get To Know Each Other. 457 00:24:53,340 --> 00:24:55,310 Woman: Well, It's About Time. Hello. 458 00:24:55,310 --> 00:24:58,010 Hello. Welcome To The House. 459 00:24:58,010 --> 00:25:01,410 Yes. Hi. Thank You. 460 00:25:01,420 --> 00:25:02,350 Hey, Sweetie. 461 00:25:02,350 --> 00:25:04,220 How Are You? 462 00:25:04,220 --> 00:25:06,450 Hello, Hello. 463 00:25:06,460 --> 00:25:08,990 Welcome. How You Been Doing? 464 00:25:08,990 --> 00:25:11,390 I'm Fine. 465 00:25:11,390 --> 00:25:14,060 When We First Found Out 466 00:25:14,060 --> 00:25:17,830 That Alan Was Dating Someone In Brazil, 467 00:25:17,830 --> 00:25:20,600 We Didn't Believe Him. 468 00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:21,800 Yeah. 469 00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:25,110 Good. Excellent. 470 00:25:25,110 --> 00:25:31,680 But The First Time He Let Us Over Video Chat Meet Her, 471 00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:33,510 I Think, Is When We Went, "Wow! 472 00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:35,950 "This Is For Real, And She's Beautiful. 473 00:25:35,950 --> 00:25:38,390 What Does She See In Alan?" 474 00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:40,220 No. 475 00:25:40,220 --> 00:25:43,860 A Lot Of Things Have Come To My Mind. 476 00:25:43,860 --> 00:25:44,220 Okay. 477 00:25:44,230 --> 00:25:47,830 So, Of Things That Have To Do With The Wedding. 478 00:25:47,830 --> 00:25:51,100 And It Just Makes Me Nervous. 479 00:25:51,100 --> 00:25:52,000 Ay. 480 00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:55,600 When Kirlyam Stays At My Parents' House, 481 00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:57,340 There Will Be A Language Barrier. 482 00:25:57,340 --> 00:26:02,480 My Mom And My Dad Do Not Speak A Lick Of Portuguese. 483 00:26:09,590 --> 00:26:10,720 Yes. 484 00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:14,520 It's Gonna Be Awkward At First. You Know? 485 00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:16,920 Goodbye, Alan! 486 00:26:20,430 --> 00:26:22,800 Are You Sure You're Okay Here? 487 00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:24,130 Yes. 488 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:26,200 You Are Sure? Okay. 489 00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:28,570 Okay, Really. Bye. 490 00:26:34,010 --> 00:26:38,710 We Would Be Okay Without My Parents Chaperoning Us, 491 00:26:38,710 --> 00:26:40,510 But We'd Rather Not Risk It. 492 00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:43,150 We're Fully Committed To Seeing This Out Through The End, 493 00:26:43,150 --> 00:26:45,450 And So We'll Do Whatever Necessary To Make Sure 494 00:26:45,450 --> 00:26:48,720 That We Actually Do See It All The Way To The End. 495 00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:49,760 I'm Back. 496 00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:50,890 You Okay? 497 00:26:50,890 --> 00:26:53,590 I'm Fine. Thank You. 498 00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:55,600 Have To Say Goodbye Again. 499 00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:56,030 Again. 500 00:26:56,030 --> 00:26:57,330 Alan: I Feel A Little Bit Nervous 501 00:26:57,330 --> 00:26:58,930 Leaving Kirlyam Here At My Parents' House. 502 00:26:58,930 --> 00:27:02,170 Completely New Place, But It's A Good Opportunity, 503 00:27:02,170 --> 00:27:05,910 Bonding Experience For Kirlyam And My Parents. 504 00:27:05,910 --> 00:27:07,340 Pillow. 505 00:27:07,340 --> 00:27:09,910 Oh, Good. Thank You. 506 00:27:09,910 --> 00:27:10,480 Anything Else? 507 00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:12,750 No, I'm Fine. I'm Really Fine. Thank You. 508 00:27:12,750 --> 00:27:15,120 Okay, You Promise? I Promise, Really. 509 00:27:15,120 --> 00:27:16,220 Our House Is Your House. 510 00:27:16,220 --> 00:27:17,250 Oh, Thank You. Yes. 511 00:27:17,250 --> 00:27:20,050 In Spanish, It'd Be Mi Casa Es Su Casa. 512 00:27:20,060 --> 00:27:21,490 Su Casa, Yeah. 513 00:27:21,490 --> 00:27:22,820 All Right. Good Night. 514 00:27:22,820 --> 00:27:25,660 Bye. Good Night. 515 00:27:57,060 --> 00:28:01,230 Here, I Don't Know The Way They Dance. 516 00:28:15,780 --> 00:28:19,780 Paola: Well, In Columbia, The Way We We Dance Is... 517 00:28:25,220 --> 00:28:28,120 You Don't Need To Do The Same Step Every Time 518 00:28:28,120 --> 00:28:32,290 Because Each Step Is Completely Different. 519 00:28:32,290 --> 00:28:35,960 Can Be Romantic, Can Be Moving, Can Be Fast, Can Be Slow. 520 00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:41,070 And With A Line Dance, It's Just Do The Same, 521 00:28:41,070 --> 00:28:42,640 What The Other People Are Doing. 522 00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:45,540 I Really Like It, But It's Hard. 523 00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:13,830 Whoo! 524 00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:16,900 Russ: Ohh! 525 00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:28,310 Go For It! 526 00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:30,650 She Had No Idea What She Was Getting Into. 527 00:29:30,650 --> 00:29:32,350 No, I Never Did That Before. 528 00:29:32,350 --> 00:29:34,120 And It Was Awesome. 529 00:29:39,430 --> 00:29:40,430 Whoo! 530 00:29:40,430 --> 00:29:41,160 Whoo-Hoo! 531 00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:43,300 Hold On! Hold On! 532 00:29:52,610 --> 00:29:57,040 Pistols Firing! Tas, Tas, Tas! 533 00:30:04,990 --> 00:30:07,350 The Guy Was Playing Easy On Her. 534 00:30:07,360 --> 00:30:08,250 Shut Up. 535 00:30:09,290 --> 00:30:12,960 I Really Miss My Family. 536 00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:15,860 Especially My Mother. 537 00:30:16,630 --> 00:30:22,040 I Believe That It Is Worth It To Give Up Everything 538 00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:25,340 To Come And Be With Louis. 539 00:30:34,820 --> 00:30:37,750 Alan: Kirlyam Staying Over At My Folk's Place 540 00:30:37,750 --> 00:30:39,820 Makes Me A Little Bit Worried. 541 00:30:39,820 --> 00:30:41,190 They Have To Go To Work. 542 00:30:41,190 --> 00:30:43,090 She's Gonna Be There All Alone. 543 00:30:43,090 --> 00:30:46,830 Knock Knock. Good Morning. 544 00:30:46,830 --> 00:30:47,690 Good Morning. 545 00:30:47,700 --> 00:30:49,700 Kirlyam: Good Morning. 546 00:30:49,700 --> 00:30:50,100 Welcome. 547 00:30:50,100 --> 00:30:52,870 How'd You Do? 548 00:30:52,870 --> 00:30:55,200 Mm, Fine. Fine. 549 00:30:57,470 --> 00:31:02,380 Parents, For Me, Really, Really Nice People. 550 00:31:02,380 --> 00:31:06,050 I'm So Sorry That We Have To Wake You Up So Early. 551 00:31:06,050 --> 00:31:07,280 No. No Problem, Really. 552 00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:09,580 Well, We've Got To Go To Work. 553 00:31:09,580 --> 00:31:10,450 Okay. 554 00:31:10,450 --> 00:31:12,650 When I Stay In Brazil... 555 00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:20,230 All Right. We'll Call. 556 00:31:20,230 --> 00:31:21,790 Okay. 557 00:32:12,610 --> 00:32:14,810 I... 558 00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:27,330 Especially My Mother. 559 00:32:55,320 --> 00:33:03,060 ¶ Lady In Pink, You Don't Have To Cry ¶ 560 00:33:13,010 --> 00:33:17,980 ¶ Don't You Let Go 561 00:33:17,980 --> 00:33:20,710 It's Hard. 562 00:33:33,930 --> 00:33:35,160 Woman Over P.A.: Ladies And Gentlemen, 563 00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:37,060 All Seat Belts Must Be Fastened, 564 00:33:37,070 --> 00:33:38,160 All Seat Backs And Tray Tables 565 00:33:38,170 --> 00:33:40,500 Do Need To Be In Their Upright Position. 566 00:33:40,500 --> 00:33:43,900 My Fiancée, Aya, Is From The Philippines. 567 00:33:43,910 --> 00:33:45,270 I'm Going Back To Get Her 568 00:33:45,270 --> 00:33:49,080 To Bring Her Back To The United States. 569 00:33:56,080 --> 00:33:57,780 I Believe Aya Is The One For Me. 570 00:33:57,790 --> 00:34:04,990 If For Some God-Awful Reason It Doesn't Work Out For Us 571 00:34:04,990 --> 00:34:09,230 And I'm Not With Her, I Probably Won't Be With Anybody Else. 572 00:34:12,030 --> 00:34:15,440 I Honestly Believe That 573 00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:20,010 There Is One Person Out There, And I'm 100% Sure 574 00:34:20,010 --> 00:34:24,010 That She Is The Person That I Was Supposed To Be With. 575 00:34:24,010 --> 00:34:28,850 At First, I Didn't See Her. 576 00:34:31,590 --> 00:34:32,850 Hey, Babe. 577 00:34:32,850 --> 00:34:35,860 And Then I Saw Her, And It Was Really Great. 578 00:34:35,860 --> 00:34:39,990 It Was Just Like It Was Supposed To Be Like That. 579 00:34:39,990 --> 00:34:41,730 Oh. 580 00:34:41,730 --> 00:34:43,700 He's Here. 581 00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:50,140 My Name Is Aya Ramondo. 582 00:34:50,140 --> 00:34:53,910 I'm 30 Years Old, And I'm From The Philippines. 583 00:34:53,910 --> 00:34:55,370 Hi. 584 00:34:55,380 --> 00:35:00,250 I Live At Home With My Family Almost All My Life. 585 00:35:00,250 --> 00:35:04,820 It Feels Sad Moving Away From Home, 586 00:35:04,820 --> 00:35:09,590 But Louis Is Different Compared To Any Other Guy 587 00:35:09,590 --> 00:35:12,760 That I've Dated In The Philippines. 588 00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:18,800 He's Just Natural. 589 00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:21,170 I Mean, I'm Just Very Comfortable 590 00:35:21,170 --> 00:35:24,300 With Him Talking About Anything. 591 00:35:24,310 --> 00:35:27,210 And That Means A Lot To Me. 592 00:35:29,710 --> 00:35:31,110 Okay. 593 00:35:31,110 --> 00:35:35,050 It Feels Sad Not Being With My Grandmother, 594 00:35:35,050 --> 00:35:38,420 Because I Am Just Very Attached To Her. 595 00:35:38,420 --> 00:35:43,060 I Think Whoever Knows And Understands Me Better 596 00:35:43,060 --> 00:35:45,760 Is My Grandmother. 597 00:35:55,500 --> 00:35:56,900 Louis: I Will. 598 00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:01,840 Aya: I Believe That It Is Worth It 599 00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:05,850 To Give Up Everything To Come And Be With Louis. 600 00:36:05,850 --> 00:36:12,350 If Only Louis Doesn't Have The Boys, We Could Live In P.I. 601 00:36:12,350 --> 00:36:14,250 But The Boys Are Still Young, 602 00:36:14,260 --> 00:36:19,960 And I Don't Want Him To Choose Between Me And The Boys. 603 00:36:23,930 --> 00:36:26,400 I Have To Meet, Like, The Whole Family. 604 00:36:26,400 --> 00:36:28,940 She Looks Like She Don't Like My Food. 605 00:36:28,940 --> 00:36:31,440 No, Please. Don't Think That. 606 00:36:31,670 --> 00:36:34,870 Russ: My Parents Are Directly Underneath My Bedroom, 607 00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:37,580 But It's Not Easy To Tell Her No. 608 00:36:49,190 --> 00:36:49,960 Well... 609 00:36:49,960 --> 00:36:51,490 Hey. Presents. 610 00:36:51,490 --> 00:36:53,890 Oh, I Got To Carry Those, Too. 611 00:36:53,900 --> 00:36:54,230 Duh. 612 00:36:54,230 --> 00:36:56,160 I'm Putting Them In Here, Yeah. 613 00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:58,260 Is There Anything Fragile In Here? 614 00:36:59,670 --> 00:37:00,570 Maybe. 615 00:37:00,570 --> 00:37:02,070 Yeah? If I Get Excited. 616 00:37:19,450 --> 00:37:21,890 Welcome To The Parents' House. 617 00:37:23,830 --> 00:37:25,630 Hello. 618 00:37:25,630 --> 00:37:27,230 Hi. 619 00:37:27,230 --> 00:37:28,530 Nice To Meet You. 620 00:37:28,530 --> 00:37:31,400 Mom, Dad, This Is Aziza. Amy. 621 00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:31,800 Hi. 622 00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:34,600 Welcome. Thank You. 623 00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:35,900 Hi. 624 00:37:35,900 --> 00:37:36,370 How Are You? 625 00:37:36,370 --> 00:37:39,240 I'm Good. Thank You. Hi. 626 00:37:42,010 --> 00:37:44,280 Uh, This Is So Nice. 627 00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:45,510 Mike: Hi, Amy. 628 00:37:45,510 --> 00:37:47,380 She's A Little Excited. Hey, Easy, Buddy. 629 00:37:47,380 --> 00:37:50,150 That's Maisy. 630 00:37:51,950 --> 00:37:52,990 So, You Guys Hungry? 631 00:37:52,990 --> 00:37:54,890 Um... I'm Starving. 632 00:37:54,890 --> 00:37:57,860 Aziza Probably Already Ate Today. Did You Eat? 633 00:37:57,860 --> 00:38:00,090 No, Actually. Oh, Thank You. 634 00:38:00,630 --> 00:38:03,160 That Was Nice. Did She Bite You? 635 00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:05,670 So, Sweetie, Do You Want A Bun 636 00:38:05,670 --> 00:38:08,700 Are You Gonna Eat A Hamburger, Or...? 637 00:38:10,270 --> 00:38:11,340 Bread. 638 00:38:11,340 --> 00:38:12,310 No. No, Thanks. 639 00:38:12,310 --> 00:38:13,310 Chicken? 640 00:38:13,310 --> 00:38:13,970 Plate? Yeah. 641 00:38:13,980 --> 00:38:16,440 Chicken, Hamburger, Whatever You Want. 642 00:38:19,010 --> 00:38:21,280 I'm Good. Don't Worry About Me. 643 00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:24,350 You Need To Eat, 'Cause You Have To Get Fat 644 00:38:24,350 --> 00:38:26,420 Like All The Rest Of The American Women. 645 00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:28,490 No, Thank You. 646 00:38:28,490 --> 00:38:29,560 Look, There's Forks. 647 00:38:29,560 --> 00:38:31,690 Silverware Here. Okay. 648 00:38:31,690 --> 00:38:34,390 Grab That One There. Thank You. 649 00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:36,260 Yeah, You Want Some Chicken? 650 00:38:36,260 --> 00:38:37,100 You Give Me This Thing. 651 00:38:37,100 --> 00:38:40,500 There's Knives. We Need Anything Else? Corn? 652 00:38:40,500 --> 00:38:42,840 No, Thank You. I'm Good, Really. 653 00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:45,070 Don't Worry About Me. 654 00:38:45,070 --> 00:38:47,670 I Know You Guys Are So Busy Running Around. 655 00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:51,080 I Want To Make Sure You Eat. 656 00:38:54,210 --> 00:38:55,350 Aziza's Told Me A Million Times 657 00:38:55,350 --> 00:38:57,080 That She Doesn't Like Going Out To Eat. 658 00:38:57,090 --> 00:38:58,750 She Doesn't Like When People Watch Her Eat. 659 00:38:58,750 --> 00:39:00,820 She Has No Problem With Me Seeing Her Eat, 660 00:39:00,820 --> 00:39:01,620 It's Just Mostly Strangers 661 00:39:01,620 --> 00:39:03,490 Or People She Doesn't Know Well, I Guess. 662 00:39:03,490 --> 00:39:06,690 Just Some Kind Of Little Phobia. 663 00:39:06,690 --> 00:39:10,030 All Right. 664 00:39:30,420 --> 00:39:32,220 She Looks Like She Don't Like My Food. 665 00:39:32,220 --> 00:39:34,590 No, Please. Don't Think That. 666 00:39:34,590 --> 00:39:37,390 I'm Just... 667 00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:48,130 Kerry: I Don't Know What The Custom Is In Russia 668 00:39:48,140 --> 00:39:50,870 If They Would Prepare A Big Meal And Then Somebody Came In, 669 00:39:50,870 --> 00:39:53,410 Just Sat There, And Wouldn't Eat Anything. 670 00:39:53,410 --> 00:39:53,910 I Don't Know. 671 00:39:53,910 --> 00:39:54,810 Anywhere That I've Ever Been, 672 00:39:54,810 --> 00:39:56,310 Even If I Don't Like What Somebody Made 673 00:39:56,310 --> 00:39:58,780 Or I Wasn't Hungry, I Would Take Something. 674 00:39:58,780 --> 00:40:02,680 So, Yeah. 675 00:40:02,680 --> 00:40:04,550 I'm Not Doing It On Purpose. 676 00:40:04,550 --> 00:40:05,890 It's Not -- I Don't Know. 677 00:40:05,890 --> 00:40:07,990 It's Just Something I Can't Control. 678 00:40:07,990 --> 00:40:12,590 There's A Lot Of Preparing Food, And Then She Didn't Eat. 679 00:40:12,590 --> 00:40:14,990 So, I Felt Uncomfortable All Of Us Eating, 680 00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:16,000 And She Wasn't Eating. 681 00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:19,500 It Made Me Uncomfortable. 682 00:40:19,500 --> 00:40:20,500 Talk. 683 00:40:20,500 --> 00:40:22,540 Eh, But I Ain't Saying It. 684 00:40:22,540 --> 00:40:24,470 Why? Say It. 685 00:40:25,870 --> 00:40:27,010 No. Everything's Good. 686 00:40:27,010 --> 00:40:29,070 Everything Couldn't Be Better. 687 00:40:39,450 --> 00:40:41,520 Shh. 688 00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:45,290 Paola: This Situation, Living With His Parents, 689 00:40:45,290 --> 00:40:48,630 I'm So Sorry, It's Difficult. 690 00:40:48,630 --> 00:40:51,400 Russ: According To My Parents' Request, 691 00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:53,900 We Need To Be In Separate Rooms. 692 00:40:53,900 --> 00:40:57,100 The Situation Is Not Easy, 693 00:40:57,100 --> 00:41:02,510 But I Wanted To Respect My Parents' Wishes. 694 00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:20,060 There, Behold, Was Paola Sneaking In 695 00:41:20,060 --> 00:41:24,460 Asking For...A Little Love. 696 00:41:30,170 --> 00:41:33,040 My Parents Are Directly Underneath My Bedroom, 697 00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:35,210 But It's Not Easy To Tell Her No. 698 00:41:35,210 --> 00:41:36,440 Trust Me. 699 00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:38,210 Oh. 700 00:41:40,510 --> 00:41:43,580 We Need To Get Our Own Place. 701 00:41:50,460 --> 00:41:52,090 Good Morning. 702 00:41:52,090 --> 00:41:53,030 Okay. 703 00:41:53,030 --> 00:41:55,090 Good Idea. 704 00:41:57,900 --> 00:41:58,700 40, 50? 705 00:41:58,700 --> 00:42:00,770 Aziza Doesn't Seem Like She's Getting Too Excited 706 00:42:00,770 --> 00:42:01,970 About A Lot Of Things In The Wedding. 707 00:42:01,970 --> 00:42:05,140 Sometimes I Worry That She Doesn't Want To Do This. 708 00:42:05,140 --> 00:42:06,040 So, What Are You Thinking? 709 00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:08,940 Looks Like A Cafeteria Or Something. 710 00:42:08,940 --> 00:42:12,780 Woman: It Would Be So Easy For You To Make It Out Here 711 00:42:12,780 --> 00:42:14,280 As A Model, I Think. 712 00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:15,010 Wow! 713 00:42:15,020 --> 00:42:16,020 She Thinks You Could Be A Model? 714 00:42:16,020 --> 00:42:19,450 I Don't Want Kirlyam Caught Up In That Lifestyle. 715 00:42:20,350 --> 00:42:23,490 Aya! Your Feet Stink. 716 00:42:23,490 --> 00:42:29,630 The Boys, The Ex-Wife, A New Country, And My Wedding. 717 00:42:29,630 --> 00:42:31,100 This Is All Too Much. 718 00:42:31,100 --> 00:42:34,400 I Don't Know If I Can Make It In 90 Days.